Is Marriage an Achievement?

For some weeks or months now, some high class tenants on social media who have denied the umbrella name of influencers, as they prefer to be referred as mummies have once again entertained we the co-tenants with their heated argy-bargy on the subject of marriage. 

Their discrepancy as to the issue of " If marriage is an achievement or not", bought my attention in the most expensive currency. Purchasing my attention necessitate an input of my fresh opinion which will be harvested from my little garden of knowledge. 

Placing this argument on a pendulum, I find marriage being an achievement to be weightier. Thus my uncontrollable impetus will concentrate on dishing to you why marriage is an achievement. This reasons will be segmented into two points; Virginity as a Condition for Marriage, and, The Notion of Feminism

Virginity as a Condition for Marriage* From the religious and traditional Inception of marriage as an institution, the main purpose of marriage was for sex and procreation. 

Due to this standing, men had no option but to spend huge sums of money just to marry a woman so as to have sex and have children to call their own. During this epoch, Virginity was an effeminate condition for marriage. 

Due to this aspect of getting married to a virgin and being the first to deflower her, many men preferred to risk a lot and at times borrow just to get married to a virgin lady who will be the mother of their children. 

Today, the narrative has taken a paradigm shift as it is more difficult to see a virgin girl than taken a vacation to the sun. Most of the ladies we have today are non virgins and about 70/% of them are into hook up or runs. 

They spend their youthful age jumping from one man to another . The consequence is that; these ladies who are fed up with the sexual treatment of men, will be the same ladies wanting to marry at the age of 30 above during their retirement. 

It becomes difficult because most of the men who should have married them before having sexual intercourse with them, must have gotten it already through an exchange of money or items. 

Some of the men who finally get such girls for the purpose of marriage, run for their dear lives after discovering these ladies have been used and dumped by most men. 

This poses the question of; Who will now pay huge sums of money to consume a good others consumed with an exchange of fried eggs, shawarma, Iphone, soya and ring light ? Since they cannot risk getting married to such ladies, they resort to just having a child or children with her and dump her afterwards to go back to the street and continue her hookup job. 

The next reason is; The Notion of Feminism. Since many of these hook-up girls end up getting rich and influential due to the amount collected from the business, they see no reason to submit to and be humble to a man because they already have what a man can give them during marriage ( both money and influence), so they just need a man only for procreation. 

They will only look for a man who can fertilize them, dump him and continue with their hookup jobs. Statistics have proven that Feminist are women who have passed through so many sexual laboratories with different lab technicians using different penis sizes as their instrumentum laboris. 

The different penis sizes penetrating these women naturally transforms their effiminate quality to masculinity and out of frustration from being dumped by these men they decide to revenge by fighting back with the phrase that they don't need a man. The prove to the above point is that, there's no feminist who is a virgin. 

Most of them have been sexually maltreated and abandoned, or most of them are so call baby mama's or single mothers. The strength of feminism comes from the manhood. So, most of these women who believe to have had enough sex, or children and money which are the benefits of marriage, see no reason to marry. 

They become open to be used by the devil to combat God's institution of marriage which as per God's word; " He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from God." Proverbs 18:22." 

A man will leave his family, his father and mother and be united with his wife”. Matthew 19:5-6. From the above, it is clear that most women who say marriage is not an achievement, say so out of frustration and the unwillingness to submit to a man. Marriage will always remain an achievement to a woman who is humble and respect her body.

BY MARKS ABAIKO

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